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Warm Wishes For Mother’s Day!

“Happiness is a warm puppy.”
Charles M. Schulz

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“Mother’s Day” Question:
How do you feel about people making the statement that they are their pet’s “Mommy” or “Daddy”?

I saw an article written not too long ago shaming people who referred to animals as their children.  To be honest – that post made me see red.  It is my choice (and that of others) to refer to our pets as family members.  Pets are not just something that you throw in a closet when you’re not paying attention to them.  They are not toys.  They are not there to be paid attention to only when it is convenient for you.  They have feelings.  They rely on you for food, shelter, entertainment, and most importantly…for love.  Just like children, pets require your attention and your money.  Some people can’t have human children, and some people just don’t want them.  I honestly don’t think I could ever love a human child as much as I love my dog.  I am a GREAT pet mom…but I think I would be a TERRIBLE human mom.

So, why is it that people take it upon themselves to be upset about what others choose to refer to their pets as?  Why does it bother you that there are humans out there that care enough about their pets to call them their kids?

Anyway.

Pet Moms can feel a bit left out when it comes to Mother’s Day.  I mean, it’s not like your cat or dog supposed to sneak out of the house to buy us a gift or card!  And no one has ever said, “Happy Mother’s Day mom, I love you!”   But then I got to thinking…  it seems as though Hallmark had to create a holiday to ensure that kids remembered to thank their moms and show their love and appreciation at least once a year.  Dogs and cats do that EVERY day!  When was the last time a human child greeted you at the door, so happy to see you that his entire body was vibrating with joy?  And cats don’t need a reminder to cuddle up next to you, kneading your shoulder while purring in your ear.  So while cards and gifts are nice (and yes, I bought my mom both!), maybe pet Moms are the luckier of the bunch.  The tinge of loneliness and the feeling of being forgotton on Mother’s Day is all in my head, afterall.  All I need to remember is the devotion and affection my furry babies show to me each and every day.

Perhaps one of the biggest perks of having only furry children is that I never have to deal with the sudden outbursts.  They don’t yell things like “I hate you” or “I wish you weren’t my Mom”.   Of course, our dogs aren’t going to take care of us when we’re old, so there’s that significant downside. However, with all the money we’re saving from not having kids, we should hopefully be able to save up for a home in a nice retirement community!

The lifespan of dogs and cats is short, just a flicker, compared to a human.  While during those few short years there are plenty of ups (puppy breath!  catnip play time!) and downs (illnesses and injuries), I wouldn’t trade it for the world.  I know that one day the pets I have now will leave me just as the ones before them did…leaving a huge hole in what used to be a whole heart.  I try to make the best of every day with them, because I never know when they will be too old to want to go for a walk, or too sick to want to chase the laser pointer.  The saying that “a parent should never have to outlive their child” unfortunately does not get to apply to pet Moms and Dads.  Take advantage of the time you have, every day.  Make sure to spoil Fido with extra long walks and plenty of dogbones, and keep a fresh supply of cat scratchers and cardboard boxes in stock for Fluffy.

I’ll be working on the bucket list that I made for Oreo very soon.  Photos and stories to come.  I’m trying to come up with one for Burger as well; but thinking of exciting adventures to go on and goodies to try for a kitty isn’t half as easy as it is to come up with for a pup!

Until next time — Happy Mother’s Day to all of the Moms out there – both with furry and non-furry kids!

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Rainy day project – DIY Mango Bird Feeders!

“Outside of a dog, a book is man’s best friend. Inside of a dog it’s too dark to read.”
— Groucho Marx

Normally on rainy days, I don’t want to get out of bed.  Today was no exception…until I got hungry.  I was eating some mango that I had bought the other day when I remembered something that I had seen on Pinterest.

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I had no real supplies (I’m not exactly known for being crafty), so I made due with what I had : a paper clip, some yarn and my mango rind.  I didn’t start taking pictures until I was half way through, because honestly…I didn’t expect much from this.  And while it still isn’t exactly Pinterest-worthy; it’s not bad for a first attempt.

I started by straightening out the paperclip most of the way and securing yarn around it.  Then I simply poked a hole through the rind with the paperclip and fed the yarn through.  I continued pushing until the paperclip and yarn went straight through to the other side.  I attempted to repeat this by doing a quarter turn and pushing the paperclip through the other side as well, but the top of the mango gave out.  So while this isn’t as sturdy as I would have liked, it seems to be working just fine so far.  I tied a knot on each end of the yarn to secure it to the rind, and pulled on the yarn to make a loop that I could use to hang the bird feeder with.

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With the mango “cup” completed for the feeder, I then added some bird seed.

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Upon my first attempt at hanging it outside, the bird seed flew everywhere.  So i brought it back inside to think of a way to make the seed stick a little better while still being safe for birds.  My solution?  Peanut butter!

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I mixed a forkful of all-natural peanut butter in with the bird seed to give it some “stick”, and it seemed to work!

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All that was left was to hang it outside again and see what happened.  Stepping outside and encountering my first gust of wind showed me that adding the peanut butter was successful – the birdseed stuck together for the most part instead of flying all over the yard.  I chose to hang it from a tree branch facing the bathroom window ledge where my cats love to sit and watch the birds and squirrels.

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I’m not sure how long this will stay hanging for, but I’m pretty happy with the result.  Next time I’ll stock up on some actual supplies and try something a bit firmer – an orange rind, maybe?   My cats are also happy with the result – while most of the birds are hiding from the rain, there have been a few who adventured out to get some seed, and Burger and Kitten Little are entertained watching them.   Now let’s bring on the rest of the hungry birdies!

Hope you all have a wonderful rest of your weekend!
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Wordless Wednesday – Buddy and Oreo

Tribute To A Best Friend
“Sunlight streams through a window pane
unto a spot on the floor….
then I remember,
it’s where you used to lie,
…but now you are no more.
Our feet walk down a hall of carpet,
and muted echoes sound….
then I remember,
It’s where your paws would joyously abound.
A voice is heard along the road,
and up beyond the hill,
then I remember it can’t be yours….
your golden voice is still.
But I’ll take that vacant spot of floor
and empty muted hall
and lay them with the absent voice
and unused dish along the wall.
I’ll wrap these treasured memorials
in a blanket of my love
and keep them for my best friend
until we meet above.”

It’s little moments like this that I miss the most.  Can’t believe that Friday will be two months since you left us.  Missing you so much today, Buddy 🙁

A photo posted by BURGER (@burgerthekitty) on

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“He who is cruel to animals becomes hard also in his dealings with men. We can judge the heart of a man by his treatment of animals.”
Immanuel Kant

Part of being a crazy pet mom is the duty of spoiling your pets rotten.  Unfortunately, with spoiling comes spending money, and money does not grow on any trees by my house.  Since starting this blog, I’ve reached out to a few companies for pet related freebies to try out, and I’ve been lucky enough to hear back from a few of them!  The first product I received was Salmon Oil.  You can click on the link to see my review of it on Amazon, but to make a long story short – it seemed to be a pretty big hit in my house.  I started mixing it in with Oreo’s normal food while we were in Philly.  I put a squirt in his food every morning, and he happily would chow down.  After the first time he tried it, Oreo gave me 5 fishy kisses and a bunch of fur on my new pants as a thank you.  Unfortunately, the packaging on the bottle wasn’t that great, and it didn’t survive the car ride home.  Now I’m dealing with the fun problem of trying to figure out how to make my car stop smelling like fish!  Thank goodness it’s warming up enough outside for me to drive around with my windows down.

When we got home, the cats LOVED ME.  Or more specifically, my luggage…which the aformentioned Salmon Oil happened to spill all over.  Kitten Little was so excited that he couldn’t contain himself!  My normally quiet kitty started singing me a love song (it went MEOWW AAARWW OOORRAOW MEW) while circling around my suitcase, making sure to sniff and lick every angle.  When he was finished, he continued to show his gratitude by gifting me a hairball he personally created.

Burger is my little Romeo. Shortly after sniffing the spilled salmon oil, he wooed me with shockingly loud purrs, and began kneading me with all of his might. Then, when I was relaxed and unexpecting, he latched onto my lip with his claw; getting it stuck in the process.  Remember kids – Romeo and Juliet isn’t the greatest example of a love story…it essentially was nothing more than a passion-fueled temper-tantrum.  Apparently, Burger was keen on making sure that I remembered that.  No more fishy oil for him, if that’s the thanks I get!

I can only hope to someday be able to repay even a little bit of the love and joy these little guys bring me.

Hopefully the next product I review will be a little less painful for me (my poor lip!).  Until next time…

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Puppy breath and CyberKnife

“If having a soul means being able to feel love and loyalty and gratitude, then animals are better off than a lot of humans.”
— James Herriot

Last night I was curled in my hotel bed, dreaming that Stephen Amell was whispering sweet nothings into my ear. I turned my head to him and smiled.  I leaned in and said “Wow!  …Did you eat anchovies last night?” He just stared at me, panting, until I open my eyes and realized it was just Oreo blowing his dog-breath into my face.

I hadn’t realized how bad Oreo’s icky breath was getting!  To be fair, I’ve smelled worse.  MUCH worse.  And I know that I’m mostly to blame for the state of his breath.  As a responsible pet owner, I should be brushing his teeth every day.  However, in Oreo’s case…that is easier said than done!  So, on my way back from dropping him off for his CyberKnife treatment this morning, I stopped at a pet store and picked up all of the dental health chews and treats I could find.  On that note…he has a history of not liking them, so I might have a good supply of treats in need of a new home pretty soon!

It was a needed reminder that Oreo is due for a routine dental cleaning.  It was something that I had planned to take care of last year, but wound up having to spend a huge chunk of cash on a major surgery for him instead.  That surgery was actually one year ago today!  No biggie, I thought.  I can always take care of it this year!  But surprise surprise, his cancer treatments this year are costing me even more than his surgery last year did.  So yet again, for now, his teeth cleaning is going to have to be put off for a bit longer.  Hopefully I’ll somehow be able to save enough to get it taken care of by the end of the year.  No matter how stinky his breath gets, I’ll always happily accept puppy kisses…but I’d love for it to be just a bittttt less icky!

Anyway.

Oreo and I are currently in Malven, PA – a suburb of Philly.  We arrived Monday, and thanks to some wonderful Acepromazine, our 5.5 hour ride in snowy weather wasn’t too awful.  I think I panicked more than he did for the ride – I got stuck on a highway stretch that was so foggy I couldn’t see ANYTHING.  I slowed down so much and was holding my breath that I didn’t hit anything…and that a car wouldn’t hit me from behind for going so much under the speed limit.  That was the worst fog I’ve ever seen – and on a 65mph road, at that!  All worked out well, but I still pulled over at the next rest stop to regain some composure.  Oreo stayed asleep most of the ride, waking up every now and then to look around, then readjust his position and fall right back asleep.

Our hotel is GORGEOUS…but insanely expensive!  If I could afford it, this is totally someplace that I would want to move in to.  It’s pet-friendly, Oreo has met a  ton of dogs.  And he’s done GREAT with all of them!  He has never been aggressive towards another dog, but he’ll get very anxious and barky and scare the other dogs owners a lot of times…but not once on this trip.  Every dog he’s met in the hotel and in the veterinary hospital he has absolutely loved.

Tuesday he had his CT scan.  The doctor said that he did really well. They were able to see the tumor – she said it’s currently small-to-moderate sized, invading mainly one nostril. There’s a part of it that’s pushing on his brain, but doesn’t seem to have invaded his brain at this point. She’s confident that the CyberKnife will be able to get all of the tumor. After that it’s just keeping our fingers crossed that it stays gone.  He had his first session yesterday, and second today.  He recovered from both very well; although he’s been very very sleepy.  Tomorrow is his last radiation session, after which his vet will give me another update and set up a plan for the future.  Saturday we’ll be heading home.

I’m excited to get home just to see Burger.  I haven’t been away from him for more than 12 hours since he got sick 2 years ago.  My parents are watching him, and have said that he’s doing pretty good; but he hasn’t had a bowel movement since I left.  That’s not abnormal for him, but it still makes me nervous just because I’m not there with him.

I’ve been trying to make the most of the time I have down here while Oreo’s hospitalized.  Tuesday I spent WAY too much time in the Wegmans by my hotel.  It’s HUGE and super fancy.  I’m used to my humble little Latta rd Wegmans!  I also went a bit crazy at the salad bar.  Apparently it was an “organic” salad bar…which I found out when I checked my receipt and saw that I had spent $28 on salad alone!

Yesterday I had Rita’s Water Ice.  Holy crap it was AMAZING.  I had the Cookies N Creme flavor, and inhaled it.  I definitely need to get more before I go back home – although I was THRILLED to find out that there’s a Rita’s in Brighton!  I may have found my new favorite spot.

Today I dropped him off then came back to the hotel to shower…after the shower I took an accidental nap that lasted 4 hours!  I had wanted to explore a bit to try to find a salon at some point – I need something done with my awful hair asap.  But instead, I stopped by a bar called Mckenzie Brew House.  They brew all of their beer there, which I didn’t know as I ordered a Guinness.  The bartender suggested I get the “Leather & chrome nitro milk stout”, which tasted like a chocolate/peanut butter/Guinness mixture.  It was delicious!  I also got their brocolli, mushroom mac and cheese which was also phenominal.

Tomorrow I drop Oreo off again at 7am…hopefully I’ll find some sort of salon instead of taking another accidental nap!

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